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Nowadays many websites are available for providing online Matrimonial services. This online search has surely created easiness for the people who are looking for their life partner.
Those who are interested in availing online search facility can check different websites who are providing online matrimonial services. The people who are interested may register in to those sites for finding a match.
The proposals of respectable families are included in the listings of sites. The sites also provide the facility of advanced search for bride or groom by taking some specified details.
The sites who are providing matrimonial services take some personal info for activating your profile online for rishta. The matrimonial services are usually provided free of cost online through matrimonial sites.
The people who are looking for valid attractive rishta should avail these services and contact the persons whom proposals you find engaging.
The Qur’an says about marriage relation:
“And among His Signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between your [hearts] . . .” (Qur’an 30:21)
And marriage relation is also beautifully stated in Islam in these words.
"They (wives) are garments for you, while you are garments for them."
[Qur’an 2:187]
Rishta is carried from families mostly groom’s family go at the bride’s home to meet the girl. The rishta take place with the consent of both the families and of course importantly the consent of boy and girl.
Rishta is done through variety of ways i.e. relatives, marriage bureaus, online matrimonial sites etc. Online matrimonial sites also help in finding a Rishta for boy or a girl by registering profile online.
In Pakistan, rishta is usually fixed with the consent of parents of both sides. Sometimes the marriage is fixed due to mutual likeness of boy and girl and then they both inform their parents about that and the boy requests his family to ask for girl’s rishta from her parents.
Rishta is relationship bound which leads to a marriage and is known as the closest and strongest relation in Islam. Parents must not force their children for marriage as it is not allowed in Islam without the consent of both bride and groom.
Islam gives full freedom to boy and girl to look for a suitable rishta for their self. So marriage is not valid forcefully in Islam. Rishta is finalized with the consent of both boy and girl.
Islam has emphasized a lot on marriage and there are various hadith on shaadi. Some of the hadith are mentioned below:
The Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said:"When a man marries, he has fulfilled half of his religion, so let him fear Allah regarding the remaining half."
Prophet Mohammad (peace and blessings be upon him) has advised men regarding the selection of women for marriage. He said:"A man marries a woman for four reasons: for her property, for her rank, for her beauty, and for her religion (and character). So marry the one who is best in the religion and character and prosper".
Prophet Mohammad (peace and blessings be upon him) has beautifully stated about wives in these words:"The whole world is pleasure, and the best pleasure of the world is the righteous woman.”
Prophet Mohammad (peace and blessings be upon him) stated that:“A two rak'at prayer that a married person establishes is worthier than when a bachelor keeps up prayers at nights and fasts during the days.”
They have conveyed this message quite often that the worship of a married person is much more significant before Allah than that of a bachelor or a spinster. Getting a good, modest and chaste spouse is among the good fortunes of a person according to Islam and is also considered as one of the sources by which the religion of a person can be protected.
The Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said:“Nikah (marriage) is my Sunna. He who shuns my Sunna is not of me.”
Prophet Mohammad (peace and blessings be upon him) advised husbands in these words:"Fear God regarding women; for you have taken them [in marriage] with the trust of God."
Prophet Mohammad (peace and blessings be upon him) advised wives in these words:"When a woman observes the five times of prayer, fasts during Ramadan, preserves her chastity and obeys her husband, she may enter by any of the gates of paradise she wishes (in other words nothing will prevent her from entering paradise)."
Pakistani weddings are known for their classic ceremonies and splendor. However in Islam it is not advised to marry lavishly, according to Mohammad (S.A.W) the best wedding is the one in which least money is spent and the ceremony is kept simple.
Nowadays Muslim weddings have become very expensive affairs. Hundreds and sometimes thousands of guests are invited at wedding. Large spaces or hotels are booked to accommodate such a large gathering of guests. The bride is decorated with very expensive jewelry and dress. 22K gold is quite common that includes bracelets, ear rings, and jewelry for the head.
All people wear expensive dresses on the weddings and luxurious food is arranged for the guests of the wedding. Normally the event of shaadi is divided according to the traditions. The event of shaadi usually consists of Mangini, Mayoun, Mehndi Dholki, Nikah, Barat and Walima.
In the event of Mangini, rings are exchanged between boy and girl and this shows that they are now in a relationship bond and soon will get married.
On the event of Maiyoun, ubtan is applied on bride’s face and body. The close relatives take part in the event of Maiyoun. Usually shades of color yellow are wore in this event. Wedding songs are sung by friends and family members.
Mehndi is a very lively event of the wedding ceremony. Mehndi is applied in bride’s hand and feet. Dholak is used to sing wedding songs. Music systems are arranged to dance at the event. And some Mehndi customs are performed by the relatives.
Nikkah is a contract between two individuals. Nikah takes place at the bride’s house or at the Masjid. The Nikah Khawan is invited for recording the Nikah which is normally Imam Masjid. Three witnesses must be present at that time of both groom and bride. A close male relative asks from girl her consent and gets her signatures on the Nikah nama.
The main event is the day of Barat and Rukhsati. The bride is fully decorated with attractive traditional dress (lehnga or gharara) of weddings and jewelry. The groom mostly white sherwani or suit with traditional turban. Salami and gifts are exchanged during the event. The groom and his family leave with bride to their house in a decorated car at the time of Rukhsati.
Wallima is the last day of the shaadi ceremony. This function and dinner is arranged by groom’s side. On this day the bride wears dress and jewelry provided by the groom’s family.
Muslim families that are conservative Islamically avoid such lavish weddings as it is considered an unnecessary expense as stated by Islam. Those families prefer to pay the amount to the bride and the groom to help them start their family.